A Threesome is always more intimate…..right!?
We have always heard about the wonderful world of orgies.
I definitely gave you an insight when we looked at 8 Reasons Why Orgies Are Awesome
I mean groups are always fun but why do you need to pass three? right? Three is never a crowd.
Threesomes, like so many sexual fantasies, tend to be pretty different in real life than they are on TV.
The silver screen threesomes often come off as spontaneous super-hot sex fests.
But the reality tends to be a bit… Messier.
One huge element of threesomes that you almost never see represented in popular culture are the steps that couples take to make sure that they’re ready for a threesome way before inviting another person into their beds.
Sure, random threesomes where you meet a cool person in a bar that you both like and you spontaneously decide to go to fuck and everyone has a fantastic time, do happen– but it is also very rare.
More often, couples decide together that this is something they want to do.
They talk about boundaries, game it out through fantasy, and then take the step of trying to find someone to join them.
But one of the very first steps for you and your partner, that are thinking about having a threesome is determining whether or not you’ll are ready.
10 Signs That You & Your Partner Are Ready For a Threesome
- You both truly want it
It NEEDS to be something you both want.
I know that sounds obvious, but a lot of couples get into situations where one person wants it a lot more than the other.
If you go into a threesome because you want to go along with your partner’s desires or if you feel pressured, it will never be a success. - You’ve Explicitly Outlined What Can — And Can’t — Happen During The Act
You need to establish boundaries (Or if you are like me, have none)
However, some couples need to establish boundaries both with each other and the third before jumping into bed.
Some things you could talk about include;
The third spending the night, Will your partner be allowed to receive and provide oral sex with the third? Just to name a few. - Condom or No Condom
FYI: There are condoms for tongues too.
You need to be able to have a safer sex conversation without embarrassment.
Not because you’re fucking each other bare means the third should get the same treatment. - Your Relationship Is In A Good Place
A threesome will not solve your problems or fix a broken relationship.
If you are happy and stable and have a great sex life already, and you’re looking to try new experiences together, then a threesome is a great idea. - The Aftercare
It is very important there is a plan in place after the act has happened.
This speaks to the ways in which you decide to take care of your partner after the bomb ass threesome.
This relates to physical and emotional feelings because right after and the weeks ahead is when they start to come into play.
Set up a time to talk to your partner about how they’re feeling about it and see if it was as fun for them as it was for you.
- Â Weed and Alcohol
Listen, I am all for the high because the best way to get a girl really comfortable is when she highly nice.
However, if you have to always be using, or using a lot of weed and alcohol to make a threesome happen, then ya’ll ain’t ready for this shit. - Inclusion
As a couple you need to understand that this isn’t all about you and throughout the mission, everyone needs to be included at all times.
My rule for successful threesomes is that anyone can join in anytime.
If you want to sit back and watch, that’s awesome.
In the event you’re feeling left out or ignored, that can’t play. - Jealousy Level
Understand that every new pussy and every new dick is a new adventure.
Your partner may get aroused by the third because of this and also how the third behaves when aroused.
This may have your partner showing you something you haven’t experienced with them before. Calm yourself!
You need to check your jealousy at the door.
Before you fuck that third remember it is as a couple, it is a teamwork fuck. - Communication
Deciding on the type of third you want will determine the type of communication with them after.
The ones you meet at the restaurant or the bar is a one-off and no numbers need to be exchanged.
But if you go seeking as a couple then, why not have that third join regular sessions. - Comfortable in your own skin
Ensure as partners you love your woman’s pussy and your man’s dick.
It is important because the third will never have what you are used to seeing, feeling and tasting.
As a couple, you can’t let that detour the sexual experience.
The circumstances need to be right for a threesome.
If you are thinking of initiating a threesome as something to experience and enjoy together then it may be a fun and fulfilling adventure for you both.
If, however, your motivation is that one of you isn’t feeling sexually satisfied or you have developed a strong emotional crush on the third person and prefer them to your partner, alarm bells should be ringing.
