We often lose sight of the things that we use in our everyday life that can also aid in our sex life.
Ever stuck in traffic, stuck at your desk or even in a seminar and you have this wild thought that happens to run a volt through your dick or your vagina.
As you reminisce, it’s like your living the heated moment again and that leaves you wanting to find the right words to let that person know “Hey, let’s link up and fuck!”
But what are the right words?
Let’s face it, in today’s world, sexts are very effective tools you can use to turn someone on, if done properly and what may seem as corny, maybe one of those things that were missing to excite a dim flame of your romantic life. But let’s be real, not everyone is so comfortable sending sexy texts (sexts). The big fear is coming across as awkward or desperate but the most important rule to keep in mind when sending sexy texts is to do what feels comfortable and natural to you.
Your vibe is everything. If you send your partner a text from a place of feeling insecure and trying too hard, then they will feel it and they will not be turned on. If you text from a place where you feel genuinely turned on by them, then they will feel that too and it will create a whole different reaction!
Sexting has a few key benefits:
- You can brainstorm your text (vs. dirty talk at the moment)
- Sexting can create intense sexual tension
- It can be your “training wheels” for talking dirty (which most partners do love as long as it’s genuine)
- Gives you time to construct your text (and not be under pressure at the moment)
- Gives you time to type out what you want to say (or even visually show) but you have no obligation to actually say anything out loud
20 Sexts You Can Use With Your Partner
- “I know you’ve been thinking about me all day… want to stop thinking and start doing?”
- “I’m so bored and not sureee what to doooooo w/ myself.”
- “Umm, I’m not wearing panties. They’re not comfy.”
- “I’m bored and I’m lying in bed. Wanna play Simon Says with me?
- “I’m trying on lingerie but need a second opinion. Can you come over and help?”
- “Please use me as your own personal plaything. I was made for your pleasure”
- “I can’t stop sucking on lollipops today for some reason…”
- “You know, I feel like something’s missing in my life. Namely you. Between my legs.”
- “Guess what I’m thinking? OK, I’ll give you a hint. It involves my tongue and you naked.”
- “Confession: Sometimes I can’t help but touch myself when I think about you.”
- “Do you think I could interest you in a snack before lunch?”
- “I know you’re not a wizard, but I think your mouth is pretty magical. I can think of a few places I want it right now. Wait, maybe you ARE a wizard.”
- “There is this place I know, where the ride is smooth but the adrenaline is a rush, Wanna come with me?”
- “You, me, Hennessy!”
- “Hey Babe, I think I’m leaking, could you come help wipe it up?”
- “I wanna trace soft patterns over your skin so that I can memorize every single inch of you so I know how hard to fuck you until you forget your name.”
- “If you can guess what color my panties are, then I’ll give you a blow job”
- “I would love to know what the top of your head looks like”
- “A lot of people say that Disney World is the happiest place on earth, but they obviously haven’t been between those thighs.”
- “Do you prefer whipped cream or chocolate syrup? I just want to know what I’ll be licking off your body later”
Now you can always come up with even more creative ways to sext your partner and of course, there are the traditional couples who get aroused by a text like “Hey baby, I just want you to know, your handsome/beautiful and I can’t wait to wrap my arms around you” or even “Damn, baby, come give me some sugar!”
However you like to say it, all you need to remember is be you and everything else will flow, especially them pre-mature juices…yummy
After you use your sexts to set the pace we have some great adventures you can try.
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