Bjs? Blowjobs? They are one and the same.
You’ll just say I love writing about eating and sucking but the reality is somebody’s sucking someone and someone’s eating someone and if you and your partner are not indulging in the feast of each other, then someone else will eventually do it for you.
In the meantime, there is a wrong and right way to do everything that you partake in.
A few months ago we looked at 10 Tips On How To Give A Successful Blowjob  and of course, I had no choice but to support the ladies with  10 Steps To Improving Your Eating Game
But the work doesn’t stop there and just like how I would love for you to be good at it, I don’t mind you being great and mixing it up a bit.
I am sure you must be saying, “What does she want me trying now!?” Don’t worry I promise it’s going to be fun.
Now let’s get something straight.
There is a difference in the level of pleasure when you give a blowjob because you want to and love pleasing your man compared to you doing it, just because.
The latter will almost, every time, never feel good to him and because he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings he goes with it and just smartly wheel your lips off. (watch for the signs)
But, after getting over your “fear” of actually putting your mouth on a dick (yummy), now we need to not be boring with it.
Just like how your vagina makes an impression, your mouth demands some respect too.
So let’s make her as important.
I call mine Gabby.
20 Tips to Improve Your Blowjob Game
- Don’t make him ask. The easiest way to make a blow job better? Surprise him with it when he least expects it.
- Slow down. Let’s be serious sometimes blowjobs can be rushed to get to the next stage. Linger on him a little and make the build-up worth the wait.
- Try the lipstick technique “ running the head of his penis along the outline of your lips to tease him a little before you start.
- Use your tongue on that tiny area of skin that connects the underside of his penis to his head, it’s chocked full of nerves.
- Master the moan. Not only does making some noise during a blowjob turn him on but it also sends vibrations all down his shaft when you do it with his penis in your mouth.
- Use your teeth carefully!
- Take a break. Give your jaw a break and lick, kiss, and linger on his thighs, hips, and lower stomach.
- Talk dirty. Even a simple Oh yeah, you like that baby?
- Think of ice cream. Lick, lick, lick him good, just like you would your favourite cone.
- Make eye contact. Look up while you’re going down and give him your best sexy eyes.
- Suck his testicles into your mouth one at a time to heighten his experience. 5 Tips On How To Play With His Balls
- Play into his weaknesses. Know you’re man has a weakness for stockings or high heels? Bust those bad boys out before you go down.
- Tighten up. When stroking up and down his shaft with your hand and mouth, tighten your grip around his head.
- Change your position. Move away from the tried and true and ask your man to stand for his BJ or go at him while he’s sitting on the couch, driving or playing his PS4.
- Blindfold him. Taking away his ability to see you will literally heighten all his other senses.
- Let him use his hands “ whether it’s to guide your head, pull your hair, or massage your breasts. Men like to be in control, let him.
- Touch yourself. I guarantee nothing will turn him on more.
- Nipple action. Try rubbing the head of his wet penis along your nipples until they harden. Also, play with his nipples while your tongue pleases him.
- Get buzzing. Bring your vibrator in for some action on his shaft and perineum. (he stretch of skin between his anus and his balls)
- Have fun! He’s not going to enjoy it unless you do!
For the women that love to suck the soul out of their partner, I am sure these are things you practice all the time.
For others, hey–all in good time–practice becomes permanent.
F.Y.I.
- If it’s even once, try to swallow to gain the experience–it’s not like your body will refuse it. 8 Benefits Of Swallowing Instead Of Spitting
- For those who wear tongue rings, learn how to wrap your tongue around his dick and let that metal sink deep into the head as you suck.
- If the tongue ring is plastic, it doesn’t provide any additional benefits.
- Ensure the hand brake is up when giving heads in the car when parked. When driving it’s better if you go on your knees in the passenger seat or passenger foot space, the angles are better.
I am sure over time you will find more creative ways to make you and your partner’s blowjob experience even more exciting.
Until then, run through the guide.
Oh yea, you can always comment to let me know, how this worked out for you.
