8 Hand job Tips

Women like the idea of getting stimulated by foreplay, after all, it is usually when we get our pussy eaten. Heavenly!

However, why are we so selfish to believe that our men don’t also require foreplay?

Just like how your clit gets wet and hard when a man slides his finger/s into your pussy;

A man will yearn for the feeling of getting his dick stroked sensually to build up his sexual momentum.

I don’t know about you but I don’t mind some tips and tricks to improve my Hand Job game.

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Learning how to give a great handjob to your man;

This is a very valuable weapon to have in your sex toolbox.

Now, you may be wondering what the best hand job technique is.

The truth is there is no perfect, works-on-every-guy handjob technique.

The truth is different guys like different things.

So do not think that one hand job tip will work every time on every guy.

Now before you even decide to give a handjob, you need to ensure that your tools are in great working order.

Your main tools being your hands.

The Hands

Rough, calloused hands aren’t going to make for a particularly satisfying handjob and can even make it painful.

You need to ensure that your hands are soft and smooth so that they provide maximum pleasure.

Here’s a quick checklist of things you should probably do beforehand if your hands aren’t in good shape:

  • Use a pumice stone on tough callouses.
  • Keep your hands moisturized, so they stay soft.
  • Your nails should be free of sharp edges that may hurt him.
  • Cleanliness is next to Godliness.

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8 Hand Job Tips to Please Your Man

  1. Reach inside with gentle fingers–After rubbing his dick outside his boxers, gently slip your hand inside.
    You may be eager to start giving him a handjob the minute you see his penis, but at this stage, it’s still a good idea to keep teasing him and building anticipation.
    Move your fingertips gently over it making sure to keep your touch super light and soft as you trail your fingers up and down his penis.
    Try touching him like this as far down as his perineum (the patch of rough skin between his testicles and anus) all the way to the head of his penis, aka the glans.
  2. Pre-cum foreplay–If he is already pre-cumming at this stage, touch it with a fingertip and then slowly trace your fingertip around the head of his penis spreading his precum across it.
  3. The Gentle Claw–make your fingers into a sort of claw, keeping your fingertips together as you lower your hand onto the head of his penis.
    Your fingertips will touch it first.
    Then allow your fingertips to spread out over the head of his penis as you lower it further down.
    You can focus everything on the head of his penis, or you can move your fingers further down to his shaft too.hand job tips
  4. Traditional Twist–The “standard” or traditional way to give your man a handjob is to grab his penis and wrap your fingers around it and then stroke it up and down.
    Easy of course but rather boring so you could try to add a little twist on it.
    While stroking him up and down, rub your thumb over and back on the head of his penis.
    This means that your fingers will perform the standard up and down hand job technique, while your thumb is focused only on pleasuring the top of his penis.
  5. Balls need love too-your man’s balls are insanely sensitive.
    Fondling your man’s balls is the easiest way to play with them.
    Cup them in your hands and play with them using your fingers and ensure you are super light here, allowing them to fall through your fingers and gently tickling them with your fingertips.
  6. The Ring — the Ring is a very simple hand job technique.
    You just need to make an ‘O’ shape by touching the tip of your index finger to your thumb.
    instead of wrapping your whole hand around your man’s shaft, use only the ‘O’ and then stroke him up and down with it.
    Extra Tip: combine this with Balls need love too and some saliva…heavenly 

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  7. Speed Trap– When you masturbate by yourself, you may enjoy pleasuring yourself at various speeds.
    The same applies to your man.
    Giving him a quick handjob while he’s standing in front of the mirror brushing his teeth in the morning can be super hot and very unexpected.
    You can also give your man a massage and finish it off with a slow, sensual handjob.
    This is the magic of changing up the speed of your hand jobs; you can provide your man with completely different sensations that still make him shake, shudder and scream with orgasmic pleasure.
  8. The Orgasmic relief–Now some men may have an orgasmic experience and some may need a little mouth action.
    However, if your man is about to cum then the only thing you need to worry about here are two things; where he shoots that load and how much pressure to apply.

As usual, we do have other techniques and tips you can try and any time you want more all you need to do is schedule an appointment with us.

However, you will find that these 8 Tips work especially if you are just starting out to build your handjob game.

Now you have learnt or will be improving on your hand job to your man (or any man),

It’s time you start to think about how to transition into some more powerful sex techniques.

With this in mind, you may have noticed that it’s very natural and easy to transition from a handjob to a blow job…you just need to get your mouth involved.

Take a look at:

10 Tips On How To Give A Successful Blowjob

10 Reasons Why Women Should Give Heads

Now, women, you need to realize that a great handjob is very much like a good fuck.

Sometimes it’s fast, and sometimes it’s slow…or even VERY slow…

Never give up!

8 Hand job tips to please your man