phone sex

The time we spend with ourselves is truly a wonderful feeling.

And just in case you didn’t think about it, self-love also does include taking care of your ENTIRE body and not just your soul and mental space.

Now, given the current situation, I do believe that some things had to be increased and one of those things lead us to  17 Tips To Help Your Phone Sex Soar

But I feel a little obligated to dive a little bit deeper into some of those tips and that we could try to emphasize some key areas of our phone sex life.

So, in that piece I did talk about setting the stage for your phone sex soiree, but what was I really talking about?

Dress up for phone sex

Now If you want to keep the spark and passion in your relationship alive, making the effort to set the mood is key.

This is very true for regular sexual intercourse but it also extends to phone sex.

While setting the mood may seem kind of cheesy and old-fashioned, it is an important factor to help you sexually communicate with your partner over the phone.

For sure, setting the mood might mean different things to different people and generations, but it doesn’t have to be complicated.

“In our parents’ (or grandparents’) time, setting the mood might have looked more like a movie, with rose petals strewn on a bed, candlelight, and smooth jazz on a turntable.

Today, it probably means putting phones on silent, coordinating … schedules and checking … calendars.

Regardless, it’s still important.

Our biggest sex organ is still our head and we need to have some calm, relaxing moments to enjoy ourselves and our partner.

set the mood for phone sex

8 Tips To Help You Set Your Mood for Phone Sex

  1. Let loose
    Lie in bed for a while, browse the internet, have a glass of wine, jog on the spot, do a silly song, and dance in front of the mirror.
    Anything that will allow you to release the tension from your body.
  2. Setting up a sexy atmosphere can help put you in the right frame of mind.
    Dim the lights, and even set up some candles. http://www.mia-rocio.com/shop
  3. Play soft music.
  4. Have a bath or shower (and a shave, if you like)
  5. Think of a role play to spice up the call (you two skinny dipping, etc.)
  6. Put on (or take off!) your favorite, sexiest clothes, and underwear
  7. Set out some sex toys
  8. Turn yourself on by gently caressing your body, or thinking about your partner.
    You can even reminisce about the past sexual encounters you’ve had or would like to have.
    But don’t let yourself get too turned on just yet — that’s what the phone call is for!

Very simple things, right? very simple.

Once you have your partner on the phone, take things at a speed you’re both comfortable with.

There’s no “correct” way to have phone sex.

  • If it helps you relax, spend a few minutes chatting before you get started.
    Just don’t let yourselves get distracted from your sexy goal.
  • A low, soft tone of voice or heavy breathing can help set the mood too but don’t force it if doing so is unnatural for you.
    Speaking and breathing comfortably in your normal tone of voice will be sexier than an awkwardly forced attempt at sounding sexy.

Now let’s get to work. Shall we!

 

8 Tips To Help You Set Your Mood for Phone Sex