Cunnilingus Tips

I once dated a guy who refused to go down on me.

“I just don’t like the way it tastes,” was his excuse.

As if his dick tasted like an ice cream cone.

Friends I confided in at the time suggested I stop giving him blow jobs,

To give him a taste of his own medicine.

But since I enjoy giving pleasure, no BJs felt like I should double the punishment.

I don’t understand why so many men act like, by giving head, they’re doing us a favor.

Like they expect us to say “Thank You” afterward.

sitting Cunnilingus

I met a guy a few months ago, who while flirting with me at a party, said, “Just so you know, I’m the kind of guy who cares about making a girl cum.”
He then stared at me in anticipation, as if he was waiting for me to faint, or for celebratory balloons to fall from the sky.
Silly rabbit! lol
Not to mention that when you meet the rare guy who’s up for going down, he’s often remarkably bad at it.
All that spitting and sucking and vagina slapping: What is going on there?
To my knowledge, I don’t have an abnormally sensitive vagina, but if someone slaps it, or slurps at it like it’s a trough, any subsequent screaming will be out of pain, not pleasure.
Oral sex isn’t rocket science, so why, is good head so often either terrible or nonexistent?
It’s about time our partners understand certain things when providing cunnilingus.

8 Tips To Remember When Performing Cunnilingus

  1. No two vaginas are the same.
    They may look similar in color and shape but the position of the clitoris is different, therefore,
    The areas to be stimulated are also different.
    Especially for the vaginas that the clit is sort of hidden under layers of skin.
    Just like an uncircumcised Circumcision Helps To Form That Pretty Mushroom penis has to be rolled over, please delayer that pussy so your tongue can actually reach the clitoris.
  2. Sucking alone will not make us cum
    For many men, just a few minutes of oral sex will make them cum.
    But women tend to need more time.
    So when you plan to eat that pussy, know that you may be down there for a while, so have some patience.
  3. The orgasm is different.
    Cunnilingus is a whole sexual experience and not just a foreplay “requirement.”
    The orgasm we receive when we get eaten is way more intense, fulfilling, and feels very different than the ones we experience during sexual intercourse.
    So stop cutting it short to fuck us, allow us to cum because chances are you can’t make us cum otherwise and you don’t even realize when we fake it. Has She Been Faking Those Orgasms?
  4. Do not change anything at the moment of climax
    When we’re about to orgasm, keep doing exactly whatever it is that you’re doing.
    If you are at a slow tempo, keep it slow.
    If you’re going fast, keep it fast.
    Throwing a curveball in there at the last moment may send us plummeting from our orgasmic heights.
  5. Stop getting carried away if we are liking it
    If we’re moaning and enjoying ourselves, don’t begin weirdly hard fingering our pussy or do something completely different.
    If we like exactly what you’re doing, keep doing it!
  6. The upper half matters
    Fondling our breasts or holding our hands are nice ways to make us feel more aroused and less tense.
  7. The clit is not a chew toy
    It’s super-sensitive down there, so don’t be too ravenous.
    Tenderness is the key.
  8. Your beard can hurt
    Beard-burn on our thighs is going to distract us from whatever pleasure you may be providing.
    Be mindful of your sandpapery facial hair!

Cunnilingus at its best

The clitoris is pretty amazing, and I am not just saying that because I am the proud owner of one.

The clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings in it,

Which is almost twice the number of nerve endings in the head of a man’s penis.

It’s what makes the gloriousness of the orgasm possible for us women, and let’s face it – that deserves to be celebrated.

Many women need their clitoris stimulated in order to reach orgasm because no matter how magical your penis is, it’s not going to grow a little arm and massage our clitoris.
And for many women, a clitoral orgasm is much easier to achieve than the vaginal one.
At the end of the day ladies, no one can be responsible for your orgasms but you.
If you’re giving up the gloriousness of oral sex because of your partner, then you need to make changes for the sake of your health and pleasure!
Some guys are worth the trouble and if you’ve found one that is, do something about educating him on how to please you in bed.
You may not win every argument, but I am pretty sure if sex is involved, your partner will be hard, but not hard to convince!