
I once dated a guy who refused to go down on me.
“I just don’t like the way it tastes,” was his excuse.
As if his dick tasted like an ice cream cone.
Friends I confided in at the time suggested I stop giving him blow jobs,
To give him a taste of his own medicine.
But since I enjoy giving pleasure, no BJs felt like I should double the punishment.
I don’t understand why so many men act like, by giving head, they’re doing us a favor.
Like they expect us to say “Thank You” afterward.

8 Tips To Remember When Performing Cunnilingus
- No two vaginas are the same.
They may look similar in color and shape but the position of the clitoris is different, therefore,
The areas to be stimulated are also different.
Especially for the vaginas that the clit is sort of hidden under layers of skin.
Just like an uncircumcised Circumcision Helps To Form That Pretty Mushroom penis has to be rolled over, please delayer that pussy so your tongue can actually reach the clitoris. - Sucking alone will not make us cum
For many men, just a few minutes of oral sex will make them cum.
But women tend to need more time.
So when you plan to eat that pussy, know that you may be down there for a while, so have some patience. - The orgasm is different.
Cunnilingus is a whole sexual experience and not just a foreplay “requirement.”
The orgasm we receive when we get eaten is way more intense, fulfilling, and feels very different than the ones we experience during sexual intercourse.
So stop cutting it short to fuck us, allow us to cum because chances are you can’t make us cum otherwise and you don’t even realize when we fake it. Has She Been Faking Those Orgasms? -
Do not change anything at the moment of climax
When we’re about to orgasm, keep doing exactly whatever it is that you’re doing.
If you are at a slow tempo, keep it slow.
If you’re going fast, keep it fast.
Throwing a curveball in there at the last moment may send us plummeting from our orgasmic heights. -
Stop getting carried away if we are liking it
If we’re moaning and enjoying ourselves, don’t begin weirdly hard fingering our pussy or do something completely different.
If we like exactly what you’re doing, keep doing it! - The upper half matters
Fondling our breasts or holding our hands are nice ways to make us feel more aroused and less tense.
- The clit is not a chew toy
It’s super-sensitive down there, so don’t be too ravenous.
Tenderness is the key.
- Your beard can hurt
Beard-burn on our thighs is going to distract us from whatever pleasure you may be providing.
Be mindful of your sandpapery facial hair!
The clitoris is pretty amazing, and I am not just saying that because I am the proud owner of one.
The clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings in it,
Which is almost twice the number of nerve endings in the head of a man’s penis.
It’s what makes the gloriousness of the orgasm possible for us women, and let’s face it – that deserves to be celebrated.
