Gone are the times where people were shy about sucking cock and eating pussy.
Now, it is how well can you can suck a cock or eat some pussy.
I would like to talk about our vaginas today but I think that can wait because some of you women are out here playing “shy girls” when you wrap your lips around these cocks,
Then complain when your man gets a girl that is being all “Evel Knievel” on his shaft.
Stop complaining and start learning!
I am going to assume that you picked up a few more things when you looked at 20 Tips To Improve Your Blowjob Game 10 Tips On How To Give A Successful Blowjob and 8 Benefits Of Swallowing Instead Of Spitting
If you haven’t then you should go take a look. I dare you! lol
However, I think it’s about time we turned our sucking game up a notch,
Let’s dive a little deeper, shall we!
I am taking you to class today and I am sure you’re gonna love it.
Whether or not you have attempted the hero portion of sucking dick, we are going to look on some very key elements in successfully providing a deep throat experience.
From controlling your gag reflex, to what oral sex positions make deep throat super-easy to how to breathe and of course, you’re also going to learn how to finish him off in style.
What is Deep Throating?
This is sucking dick on a whole new level.
The way it works is that during a blow job, the blower puts as much of the penis as they can in their mouth, sometimes the whole thing.
The penis gets pushed deep into the throat, which can sometimes cause gagging or even vomiting.
Like many popular sex moves you see in porn, this technique generally feels great for the man but can be super uncomfortable for the woman (or man) giving the head.
Disclaimer: “If you’re gagging when you’re brushing your teeth and tongue, you are not a great candidate”
It actually requires work and practice, and — contrary to what you see in adult movies it isn’t that easy.
Because there’s a large object threatening to cut off your air supply.
The Enemy: Your Gag Reflex
The most important aspect of learning how to deep throat without gagging is getting your gag reflex, also known as your pharyngeal reflex under control.
When a penis hits the back of your throat, your body’s first instinct is to get it out,
Which is what triggers the gag reflex.
However, that also makes you produce a lot of saliva, which will make the whole process easier, as it acts as a natural lubricant.
Once the penis is inside your mouth, try to relax your throat as much as possible.
To help stay calm and relaxed, remember that you are totally in control, you’re not in danger, and you can stop at any time.
Also, the slower you go, the easier it will be.
How to get it under control
Getting your gag reflex under control is a simple case of desensitizing it.
Desensitizing it means that you’ll be “training” the back of your throat and tonsils to stop causing you to gag anytime something touches the, i.e. your man’s dick.
The process of desensitizing your gag reflex takes time and effort,
And there is no other way around this.
10 Steps To Training Your Gag Reflex
Try to follow the below steps to start desensitizing your gag reflex.
- You’ll be using either a finger, the handle of a toothbrush, or a dildo or something phallic-shaped.
Just make sure that it’s clean and sterile first.
And also make sure that it wouldn’t damage your throat or get stuck in it. - Place it into your mouth and slowly edge towards the back of your throat.
- Eventually, it will trigger your gag reflex as it reaches the back of your throat.
When this happens, consciously try to suppress your gag reflex hold it there. - You now need to maintain your breathing through your nose while at the same time concentrating on relaxing your throat.
Sometimes this is easy and sometimes this can be quite difficult.
The key is to keep trying, even if you do find yourself accidentally gagging now and then. - Hold your finger/dildo/toothbrush steady at the back of your throat for up to 10 seconds.
Don’t try to move it in or out. - Try doing this two to three times every day for a week.
You’ll find that towards the end of the week, it will get a lot easier, and your gag reflex won’t be as sensitive compared to when you started. - Your gag reflex will become less and less sensitive over the coming weeks as you continue practicing.
Once you notice this, then it’s time to take it a step further.
Every once in a while, try slowly moving your finger/toothbrush/dildo in and out of your mouth so that it’s repeatedly brushing off your gag reflex. - The first few times you try this, your gag reflex will be heavily stimulated making you feel like throwing up.
But it’s important to try your best to stay calm, keep breathing, and relax even if your throat is in spasms! - After a few weeks of this, you will have eventually worn down the sensitivity of your gag reflex to the point where you are quite comfortable taking a dildo deep into and out of your throat without convulsing, gagging or coughing excessively.
- Now you need to try it with your man!
This is the most effective way to get your gag reflex under your control.
While there are many other methods you could try for getting your gag reflex under control like,
Using acupuncture, wearing earplugs, applying pressure to the palm of your hand,
Using nitrous oxide (aka laughing gas), and even using ketamine,
The above strategy doesn’t require you to do anything during the act, allowing you to focus entirely on your technique.
After all, since when is it sexy to wear earplugs or perform acupuncture on yourself before deep throating your man?!
Your Man Needs To Know
Now that you’ve learned how to get rid of your gag reflex, it’s time to use this training to deep throat that dick.
It’s important that your man understands that deep throating can sometimes be difficult,
But he can make it easier and more pleasant for both of you.
The first few times you try it on him, it’s going to be much easier for you if he remains perfectly still, while you do all the moving.
This way, you can control how fast he is thrusting and how deep you take him.
Your man needs to understand that you need to be in control, so it can be a lot easier for you and
You can ultimately, provide him with a lot more pleasure.
What I’m trying to say is that you NEED TO TALK to your man, so he understands just how difficult it can be to deep throat him.
Positions Can Make It A Breeze
A significant aspect that makes deep throating your man much easier is choosing a blowjob (BJ) position that works for you.
You can try these positions:
- Face Fuck Blow Job Position
- Jack Hammer Blow Job Position
- Lie Back Blow Job Position
- Plumber Blow Job Position
Many women report that any position where your mouth and throat are in alignment is best as there is less pressure on the sides of your throat.
Positions that achieve this alignment include the Lie Back and the Jack Hammer position.
I know many of us are Throatzillas, Vaccum Jaw 3000s, and Deep Throat Primes,
But for those who still need a little nudge in the right direction, give it a try.
Most importantly, communication is key, and you must absolutely trust the partner you’re with.
If you still need a little more help, try one of my favorite deep throat sprays until I am finished working on the Khloe-Rae exclusive;
Our Intimacy Coach is always just one click away to assist you.
