Remember when I asked you to look into 10 Signs That You & Your Partner Are Ready For a Threesome and automatically your minds
went to a threesome including two women and one man, right!?
But to simply say “threesome” isn’t specific enough, because the term tends to evoke the configuration of one man and two women (MFF), which occupies a
privileged role in the sexual imagination as the unmarked menagé.
And yea that is the “regular” threesome indulgence but it is not the only.
The combinations are varied of course, but what I think we are interested in is the devil’s threesome, because after all, women have desires too.
If there is one thing women love above all other things, it’s the attention of a man.
If there’s one thing women love even more than that—it’s the attention of TWO men.
What am I talking about?
A devil’s threesome is a threesome where there are two males and one female (MFM).
The term refers to the presence of two phallic body parts, representing the devil’s horns.
It can be an ideal scenario for a woman who wants the attention of more than one man or bi-curious men who want to try sleeping with other men.
This experience can definitely be an exciting one but it can also go horribly wrong so let us look at some preparation techniques:
4 Things To Consider Before Having A Devil’s Threesome
- Stress
What they don’t show you in porn, or movies, is the high pressure that comes with juggling two sets of balls at once.
Being nervous during sex with someone new is normal.
Being excited is normal, but needing to pop a Xanax mid-thrust because you’re stressed about accidentally teething Guy 1’s dick because Guy 2 is taking you from behind like a mad man – that’s not normal.
Women are fantastic multi-taskers, but ever so often we get overwhelmed.
We want to give each penis enough attention but we can only fit so many balls in our mouth at once.
Strategize as you get dicked down, you are in control, never give it up. - Germs
There is so much saliva everywhere.
Not only are you swapping spit with one guy, but you’re also then tonguing another dude and all his germs.
His mouth, your mouth, his dick, your mouth again. It’s a cesspool for bacteria.
Have Listerine on standby for the benefit of all parties involved. - The Unknown
Most times threesomes happen with one guy you’ve slept with before and one newbie.
Maybe they’re friends, roommates, it could even be a total stranger, but the bottom line is one of them knows your sexual preferences and the other one is just going in blind.
This can cause communication problems.
For example, you’re so caught up blowing the familiar dick, you fail to notice that the newbie is about to ram his hard dick
into your asshole with the force of a thousand Spartan warriors, totally unannounced when you’ve never had anything up there before.
Communication is important. - Overuse
If you’ve had marathon sex you’ve probably experienced banging to the point of everything being dry and raw.
Now you’re introducing another man to your mouth, vagina, and potentially, ass, and you can end up with a sore jaw, swollen snatch, and an aching backside before you know it.
My mom always said everything in moderation is okay, and so goes it for threesomes.
Don’t overdo it or you’re going to be regretting it in the morning.
The views
The main issue revolving around the Devil’s Threesome is the difference of opinions when it comes to the opposite sexes.
Generally, women tend to enjoy the idea of MFM for one simple reason:
it provides them a chance to have two men satisfying all of their needs at the same time,
hitting more pleasure centers and giving the fulfilling feeling of having men ‘servicing’ them.
This kind of threesome can feel very liberating and empowering for women,
contrary to the more ‘traditional’ threesome where two women are pleasuring one man.
Devil’s Threesome is, in a way, one of the many ways to empower your femininity and level the playing field.
Instead of being the one ‘providing the service’, you can be the one enjoying every single bit of the service
and feel how two men are giving their best in order to give you the pleasure of your lifetime.
Men, however, are not such big fans of the idea and see the idea of MFM as a definite deal-breaker in the relationship, even to the point of breaking up.
For some, the major issue arises from the female partner’s wish to include a third party in the mix which might indicate dissatisfaction with the relationship.
For others, the thought of sharing intimacy with another male is daunting and extremely unappealing.
People are different though and there are some men who have claimed the experience having been arousing instead.
There are many men that share this opinion, saying it’s actually satisfying for them to see their partner being so aroused and that was the case even when both male
participants were straight.
The bottom line: what works for some, might not work for others and vice versa.
While the idea of MFM intercourse might be appealing to some men, others might be stunned by the outlook of sharing bedroom joys with another guy or they
might be even distressed by the idea.
How to introduce the idea of MFM to your partner
If you’re in a long-term relationship, trying MFM with your partner might be an interesting way to spice up the relationship,
but it’s clearly not a subject that’s easy to bring up since many guys might not be too keen on trying it.
So what’s there to do? Here are a few things to keep in mind.
Explain what MFM is all about and what you expect to get out of the experience
Devil’s Threesome might scare your man for 2 reasons:
- he is afraid you’re not happy in the relationship and are looking for ways how to have sexual intercourse with someone else without cheating on him;
the whole idea of MFM can feel threatening for him; - he is afraid he’ll need to experience male-on-male sexual actions which can feel intimidating and very unappealing for straight men.
If you mention the idea of MFM threesome to your partner and he seems to feel uncomfortable,
ask him about his doubts. If either of those two reasons is casting some shadows on him, the problem is easy to solve.
Explain to him that it’s a sexual fantasy of yours and it’s in no way an indication of your dissatisfaction, but you’d just like to experience it.
Secondly, MFM doesn’t have to be an all-way-three-way.
As for many women, the main reason behind wishing to encounter a Devil’s Threesome is the idea of having two men pleasing you,
you can explain that to your partner, making it clear that in no way is there a need for him to have sexual interaction with the other guy as well.
Pleasing you is the goal!
If he understands the expectations, the idea might be easier for him to handle.
Explain what he might get out of it
MFM can be an exciting and arousing experience for guys as well, even if at the first look it doesn’t seem that way.
Many men have talked about their Devil’s Threesome experiences actually being surprisingly good
because they enjoyed their partner getting a ‘supreme satisfaction’ out of the experience.
It can be a turn-on to see the partner having a very good time, but this mostly works only for those,
who have a knack for that type of sexual interaction or who enjoy that kind of porn.
However, it’s worth explaining to your partner that MFM can be enjoyable for him too!
Try other things first
If the idea of MFM is uncomfortable to your partner, then perhaps trying some other unique sexual activities might work as well,
especially if the main reason for you to try the Devil’s Threesome is spicing up things in the bedroom.
There are plenty of other things to try, starting from food-related sex games, roleplay,
and many other things that can bring much-needed energy to your sexual life.
When you find yourself longing for some MFM action, the question you should think about is why you want to do it.
Is it because you just want to mix things up? Or is it because you are, in fact, really not satisfied with your relationship?
If the answer is the first option, MFM can be an interesting way to spice things up and it can definitely be enjoyable for all those involved.
A devil’s threesome can be an amazing sexual experience for all parties involved.
It may also be very confusing.
There could be an existing relationship between two people in the group.
Or, it could be the first time for the men to sleep with the same sex. To avoid this, make sure to agree on boundaries.
Talk about what each person is willing to do and experience before getting into the act.
Ladies, don’t count out a devil’s threesome from your sexual portfolio—it can be pretty amazing to be the center of two guys’ attention.
Just make sure you know what you’re getting into before you put an extra player on the field.
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